Fair or Foul


Value in Modern Relationships

Half a century ago, women discovered they wanted more than marriage and children. They left the family home and began pursuing their own careers, and...


The Beautiful Spouse

There have been many women throughout history who traded on their looks to make a living. Some of them worked in careers where their looks...


The Balance of Personalities

Many people believe that opposites attract, but it does not always work well for relationships unless both partners are able to find the balance between...


Helping a Partner Achieve Success

People who choose to build a life with each other often have dreams they share, but they can also have dreams of their own. While...


Tired of Drama

People fall in love with others for various reasons, and a person who lives for drama might just be lucky enough to end up in...


The Money Equation

When a person is successful and has money, they must be wary when finding a long term relationship. There are people who could care less...


The Asset of Intelligence

Even if two people have the same score on an intelligence test, they are not of equal intelligence. One person may score higher on communication,...


Exploring New Avenues

Couples often find there is an imbalance in their daily lives, but they seldom know how to deal with it. One of them might overtake...


Compensation in a Partnership

Living with another person is not always the easiest endeavor, but it can be rewarding if the couple is able to make it work. They...

Finding balance in a relationship is always important, and the partners will function better if they take the time to do this. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and each person must compensate for their partner. This is a normal part of the give and take each person enjoys when they are fully invested in a real relationship. Unfortunately, some people choose the way they perceive as easiest, and they often find out their relationship was unequal. They are left with nothing but regrets and bad memories when this occurs.

It takes knowledge and effort to create an equal relationship between two people. Those who do this will live a nicer life, and their relationship will have a better chance of long term success. Those who fail to plan for the future will find they are often left with nothing more than regretful memories they may regret from a relationship that could have been better.